Letting Go of What Doesn’t Serve You Isn’t Failure—It’s Pruning

A teacher carrying an overflowing back pack
Have you ever watched a gardener prune a plant?

At first, it looks strange.
She’s cutting away branches that seem… fine.

And you’re tempted to say, “Why would you cut that off? It’s still green!”


But what every good gardener knows is:

If you don’t prune, the plant doesn’t grow stronger.
It just looks busy—until it wears itself out.

Educators, that gardener is you.



I once heard of a teacher who kept carrying the same lesson notes she wrote a decade ago. Neatly handwritten. Carefully underlined. 

She said, “These notes remind me of when I was full of ideas. I can’t let them go.”

But the truth is: her classroom had changed.
Her students had changed.
The world had changed.

What hadn’t changed was the weight she was carrying 💔.


One day, she decided to prune. She set aside the old notes—not the memories, just the methods. She gave herself permission to experiment. Project work. Digital tools. More collaboration.

Her spark came back!
Her students came alive!
And she remembered why she loved teaching in the first place 🥰.



Pruning doesn’t mean failure.

Pruning means growth 📈.

Carol Dweck calls this a “growth mindset”—the ability to unlearn, relearn, and stay open. 

Studies even show that teachers who adapt and prune old habits feel more fulfilled, more effective, and more joyful in their work.

So the science agrees with the gardener: cutting back makes way for the bloom.



And pruning isn’t just about old lesson notes 😄.
It’s about letting go of things that weigh us down:


🔶Perfection. Because teaching is messy. Let it be messy.


🔶 Comparison. Stop looking at the teacher next door like she has it all figured out. She’s pruning too.


🔶 Outdated strategies. If it no longer works, don’t cling—cut.


🔶 Guilt. You can’t reach every child every day. But you can show up with heart.



Every time you prune, you teach your students something powerful:
Change is not a threat.
Change is how we grow.

So let me ask you: 

-what do you need to prune today?

A habit? A belief? A way of teaching that no longer serves your learners—or your own peace of mind?


Because letting go of what doesn’t serve you isn’t failure.
It’s pruning.
And pruning is what makes space for the bloom. 



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🔶 Take two minutes. Grab a pen.

  1. Write down one thing in your teaching practice (or mindset) that no longer serves you.

  2. Ask yourself: Why am I holding on to this?

  3. Now imagine pruning it away. What new space could open up for you—and your students?

Keep that note somewhere you’ll see it this week.
And when you’re ready—make the cut.

Because growth starts with pruning.


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