When Sharing Feels Like Showing Off: The Unspoken Tension Among Teachers
During a recent conversation with a teacher... the same brilliant mind behind The Daily Takeaway, she said something that stopped me mid-sentence. “Whenever I try to teach my colleagues something new, especially when I notice them doing things the wrong way, they think I’m overdoing it...like I’m trying to make them feel less.” That quiet frustration? It echoes in many staffrooms. You want to help. You want to share. You care enough to say, “There’s a better way.” But somehow, your intention is mistaken for pride. It’s Not About Pride....It’s About Perception The truth is: teachers are natural givers, but we’re also protectors of our space. We spend our days leading, correcting, and guiding others. So when someone turns that mirror on us, even gently, it can feel uncomfortable. In many schools, the culture of peer learning isn’t always fully grown. We’re trained to teach, not necessarily to learn from one another. So when a colleague offers an idea, it can feel less like su...